My Take on Common Tips for Busy Moms

Being a mom is a rewarding and fulfilling experience, but let's face it - it can also be overwhelming and exhausting at times. I'm sure we have all turned to the internet to get suggestions on how to make it all run more smoothly. Don't get me wrong there are great tip online, but sometimes I wonder if the people writing them actually have kids, or maybe they are just way better at executing and planning! Here are some common tips I found, along with my personal thoughts and how we handle things as a family.

1. Create a Routine: "Establishing a daily routine can help bring some structure and stability to your days. Set specific times for meals, naps, playtime, and bedtime to create a sense of predictability for both you and your children."

   Let's be honest, this is great, and if this is you I am jealous! I am not the mom that was able to create a daily routine... well maybe when we just had one kid. But once the second and then third came all routines went out the window! Most days around here is it survival of the fittest and as long as everyone makes it home the day was a WIN! Jokes aside, one routine we do stick to is bedtime.

   
   

2. Prioritize Self-Care: "It's easy to put yourself last on the list, but taking care of yourself is crucial for your well-being and ability to care for others. Find small pockets of time throughout the day to do something for yourself, whether it's reading a book, going for a walk, or taking a relaxing bath."

   This is one area that I do take the time to do. I will go for a walk while someone is at practice, or read a book. I also enjoy getting a pedicure every now and then.

   
   

3. Ask for Help: "You don't have to do it all on your own. Enlist the help of your partner, family members, or friends to share the load. Delegate tasks like grocery shopping, meal prep, or childcare to free up some time for yourself."

   Personally I do not ask individuals outside of our household to help unless it is getting a kid to a practice or a game that we are not able to get them to. I chose to have a family, and it’s my husband’s and my responsibility… I have asked grandparents if they would watch the boys while I went to the grocery store on occasion.

   
   

4. Stay Organized: "Keep track of appointments, activities, and to-do lists by using a planner or a digital calendar. Set reminders for important events to avoid missing deadlines or feeling overwhelmed."

   We have 2 Family Calendars, one digital one that we have on our phones, which is wonderful I can copy the link to all the sports calendars and the just populate on one calendar! There are a bunch of options out there but we use Cozi. We also have a calendar at home that I write all the events on. The 8 year old doesn't have a phone so he likes that he is still able to know what is going on and when he has practices.

   

   Our wall calendar

   Now, let’s talk about one of the biggest stressors for moms—figuring out what’s for dinner!

   
   

5. Meal Planning: "Save time and energy by planning your meals ahead of time. Prepare a weekly meal plan and do your grocery shopping in one go to minimize trips to the store. Consider batch cooking and freezing meals for busy days."

   I will admit this is one that I try to prioritize, knowing what we will be eating for the week based on activities is a huge time and stress saver for me. I will make egg bakes and egg muffins for the kids to have in the mornings, they love them! If I don't have time to plan all the meals I at least will plan proteins and just add some frozen veggies and fruit. I have transitioned to a carnivore way of eating and this has made a huge difference in planning. More on that on a different day.

   
   

6. Embrace Imperfections: "Remember that it's okay not to have everything together all the time. Embrace the messiness and chaos of motherhood, and don't strive for perfection. Your love and presence are what truly matter to your family."

   This is the world I live in! I am an imperfect person and I fall short in many ways compared to other moms out there. But I don't let the get to me, and that is one of the reasons that I wanted to create this blog. To share our messy, imperfect, and chaotic life with the word so other moms know it is ok. Our house may be a mess and we might not have it all together but we love our kids and we never miss a game or miss an opportunity to paly outside with them!

   
   

7. Connect with Other Moms: "Building a support network of other moms can provide a sense of camaraderie and understanding. Join a moms' group, attend playdates, or connect with other moms online to share experiences and advice."

   Sports are great for this! Hockey and baseball has been where I have met most of my mom friends and they are amazing and I love them all! It gives you a chance to bounce ideas off of other moms, get their input on things happening, complain about your husband (HaHa!) and get comfort knowing that your kids are not the only ones that can be a**holes sometimes!

   
   

8. Practice Mindfulness: "Take moments throughout the day to pause, breathe, and be present in the moment. Mindfulness can help reduce stress, increase self-awareness, and improve overall well-being."

   Along with this I feel it is so important to be present. Spend time with the people you are with, not on your phone. Constantly being on your phone and seeing everyone else's best life that they put out there on social media is not healthy for anyone!

   
   

9. Get Moving: "Regular exercise can boost your mood, energy levels, and overall health. Find ways to incorporate physical activity into your routine, whether it's going for a walk with your kids, doing an at-home workout, or joining a fitness class."

   This is another one that I can get behind! For me it is time that I take to make myself better and be an example for my family. I personally like to get up in the morning and get it done, I fell accomplished like I have a head start on my day. I know this is not for everyone, but for me works. Like I mentioned above I will also walk and listen to podcasts while kids are at practice. I feel that walking gives me time to reflect on the day, plan for the next day and just have time to myself.

   
   

   

   A heartfelt note from the youngest to the oldest, declaring him the "best" in their family!

   
   

10. Celebrate Small Wins: "Give yourself credit for all the small victories throughout the day, whether it's getting everyone dressed and out the door on time or trying a new recipe for dinner. Celebrate the little moments that make motherhood special."

    Life is all about the small wins, if we only celebrate the big ones we will miss out on so much joy to be had everyday! Each day is a gift and the days I get to spend it with those I love is a win, and if I made a dinner that everyone likes that is a BONUS WIN!!

Motherhood is a wild ride—equal parts chaos and joy. There’s no one-size-fits-all manual, and what works for one family might not work for another. The key? Figuring out what works for you and rolling with it.

You don’t have to be perfect to be an amazing mom—showing up, loving your kids, and doing your best (even if that means cereal for dinner sometimes) is what truly matters. And when you need a reminder that you're not alone in this beautiful mess, check back here—I promise, you’re not crazy… or at least, not any crazier than the rest of us!